Relationships - So You Think There Isn't Anything That Could Wrong...

Isn't it interesting how you meet someone and everything is peaches and cream. You think to yourself - FINALLY - someone who understands me, who can relate and love me for me. So you take the plunge, hold no punches, love like you never thought you could - THEN BLAM!!!!!!!

Where do you go from here?? It's been years, houses, children, YOUR LIFE and there you are in the fork on the road. If you go to right, you're free. If you go to the left, more drama. You can't help but think to yourself... what about the kids, the house, MY YEARS...

I believe, if you are with someone, you should be happy. Sure, there are little things, because you love, you overlook - but should you overlook the unthinkable? I think NOT!!

Hold on now..... This goes out to men and women alike. When we sacrifice, it is done on both sides. However, you tell me why??? Why is it that one or the other always manages to risk it all for five minutes of a naughty thrill. Think about.... What about the person you risked it all with? Where are they now?? May be home with their significant other as if nothing ever happened. Where are you?? Home with your family or standing outside trying to figure a way to make it right....

For those who have experienced the unthinkable, are you still standing in the fork on the road or have you take the road on the right??

Men Have Options and Women Have Obligations

Isn't it interesting that most and I will say "most" women are the ones that stay and see the children, home, and every other responsibility through while men are able to walk away. Sure, men have been forced to comply with their responsiblities but let's face it - if it wasn't for jail, would they willingly comply.

I know some can quickly respond, "no". Have you known of men who have quit their jobs so they do not have to pay child support? Let's hear it......

Men - There are a small percentage of you who have taken that responsibility and the WOMAN has walked away. Let's hear from you.....